If you haven’t caught on by now, masturbation is one of my favorite things. Let me give you some more reasons why that is. Releases sexual tension. Reduces stress. Helps you sleep better. Improves your self-esteem and body image. Helps treat sexual problems. Relieves menstrual cramps and muscle tension. Strengthens […]
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Why Is It Bad? This is one of those urban myths that has about as much validity to it as masturbation causing hair to grow on your palms. It exists for pretty much the same reason as well. It’s just used to scare people away from experiencing pleasure. People are […]
I’d like to share with you one of my biggest pet peeves. This is a huge misconception, and people that believe so often cause a lot of frustration, if not damage, to themselves and others. What am I talking about? The idea that masturbation is just a place holder for […]
Why Is It Bad? This week I’m breaking my usual format a little to tell the story of a good friend of mine. I received several different versions of this statement submitted to me. “The type of porn you watch is indicative of what you really want.” “You should always […]
Why Is It Bad? Confession time. I completely misunderstood this when I first read this submission, but context is everything. When I first started learning about sex, one of the first things I read was to make sure your woman comes first (in hindsight, that rule doesn’t actually apply 100% […]
Why Is It Bad? Remember how last week I said it’s okay to laugh during sex? Please laugh at this myth! Have a nice hard laugh. ;-P Movies, pornography, erotica, and romantic novels often sell this idea of climaxing together. If those are the only examples of sex that you […]
Why Is It Bad? This week’s submission is a two-in-one, so strap in. Making sex all about the orgasm is like having a two-hour long four-course meal where everything is bland except dessert, and that dessert is a bite-sized macaron. Your entire meal is judged only on whether or not […]